Let’s just jump right in, shall we? These last couple weeks have been ROUGH. I’ve been rather aloof, and struggling with a few aspects of my personal and professional life. Whenever this happens, my health and creativity get the brunt of it and hit a low. I’ve been really good about eating well and working out all year, but for whatever reason, I really dropped the ball these last two weeks. It’s so easy to beat ourselves up on our shortcomings and allow it to consume us. I’m beyond guilty of this, and I realize that the only way to get out of those “funks” are to propel myself out of them. I’ve taken a step back from those things that are overwhelming me, and am focusing on things that I’m passionate about and make my heart soar. So here, I am sharing my latest beauty haul and some incredible music that I currently have on repeat. Enjoy!
What I’m Reading: “The Age of Light” by Whitney Scharer
What I’m Watching: The Bachelor and Manifest
What I’m Listening To:
I’ve Been Waiting // Lil Peep, ILoveMakonnen, Fall Out Boy
Apologize // grandson
Chrysalis // Empire of the Sun
bury a friend // Billie Eilish
Who Do You Love // The Chainsmokers, 5 Seconds of Summer
Genius // Sia, Diplo, Labrinth, LSD, Lil Wayne
It’s Not Living (If It’s Not With You) // The 1975
With my dry, sensitive skin, it’s hard for me to rock a full face of makeup without feeling like I look “cake-y”. For a while now, I’ve been debating whether to invest in an “all-over concealer, foundation, or a BB cream, and finally decided to head over to Ulta to consult a professional. Naturally, I walked out with the items I needed — BB cream, cotton rounds, and dry shampoo — but I also picked up some extras.
First order of business, the BB cream. I ended up going with the Smashbox Camera Ready BB Cream Broad Spectrum SPF 35. I loved how it applied so smoothly, and it could be layered for more coverage — personally I prefer light coverage. It’s also hydrating and has SPF to help shield your beautiful skin from the sun.
While on my Ulta trip, I also picked up Estée Lauder’s Double Wear Instant Fix Concealer 24H Concealer + Hydra Prep in the shade 1N, and YOU GUYS, I think I’ve found my new holy grail concealer! Bold statement, I know, but lately I’ve been rocking some nasty bags under my eyes (s/o to my lack of sleep) and this concealer works legit miracles. I love the way it hydrates and brightens up my eyes all day long.
With my upcoming trip to France, I’ve been searching for the perfect red lipstick. I used to love wearing lipstick when I was [fake] tan in college, but since I quit the tanning bed, I can’t help but feel like a clown with bright red lips and my pale skin. It turns out that I’ve simply been wearing the wrong shade of red for my skin tone! With the help of another consultant, I discovered Estée Lauder’s Pure Color Love Lipstick in Bar Red (ultra matte). It’s bright and bold without making me feel like I’m waiting for my shift at the circus.
Latest Fashion Picks:
If you have yet to see J. Crew’s new spring items they released this week, you need to go check it out — gingham, pink and navy for days!!! It took a whole lot of self control to not buy everything; however, I will be picking up a few items for my France trip in a few months!
Things are starting to look up and I’ve been feeling more motivated than ever before! It certainly helps that the sun is shining and spring is on the horizon; though, I shouldn’t jinx myself because you never know with Michigan weather. The next few months are about to be a whirlwind with lots of change, but I could not be more ready for it!
Thank God it’s finally February, I thought January would never end! I hope you are all staying warm with the crazy polar vortex that happened in the Midwest this week. Despite the miserable cold, there were a number of positives that happened this week: I was able to work from home as a result of the severe weather and I always find that I’m far more productive at home than at the office, and the Backstreet Boys released their new album DNA! I’ve been a HUGE BSB fan since the ripe age of 4, and I love that they’re still producing new music. **Peep a few of their new songs I can’t get enough of in the “What I’m Listening To” portion of this post.**
What I’m Watching: The Assassination of Gianni Versace on Netflix
What I’m Listening To:
7 Rings // Ariana Grande
GIRL // Maren Morris
Dancing With A Stranger // Sam Smith, Normani
New Love // Backstreet Boys
OK // Backstreet Boys
Chateau // Backstreet Boys
The Way It Was // Backstreet Boys
I just picked up this tortoise print Sonix phone case off Amazon, and I’m obsessed with it! I’ve been rocking a Lilly Pulitzer one for the past two years and while I love feeling summery year round, I was ready for a change. This is super affordable at $35 and is Military Drop Test Certified.
Because we know I can’t get enough of books (and I discovered two unused Barnes & Noble gift cards in my wallet), I ordered “Big Magic” by Elizabeth Gilbert and “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck” by Mark Manson. I try to read a handful of self-help books a year and these two have been on my “to read” list for a while now.
I am so incredibly proud of myself for successfully sticking to all of my goals for this year throughout the month of January, so I look forward to seeing the continuing progress I make from here on out. Many of my fitness goals resulted in predominately non-scale victories, which is great, but not quite where I want to be yet. As always, I’m working on some new content on topics I haven’t really touched yet and I’m so excited to share. Stay tuned!
Well guys, we made it through the first full week of 2019, and I have to say, I’m killing it in the goals category! Believe it or not, I’ve been super good about sticking to my 2019 plan, doing my best to incorporate my goals into my routine in order to banish bad habits, and form new, healthier ones. How are you guys doing with your goals so far? I admit that midway through this week I had that “ohhhh do I HAVE to work out today??” feeling; however, once I pushed through my workout, I felt SO much better, and managed to have some of the best sleep I’d had in a while that night.
I managed to do a little post-Christmas sale shopping within the last couple weeks, so I have plenty of great finds to share with you today. Both of the sales that I shopped the week after Christmas are still going on so be sure to check those out; it’s a great way to get more bang for your buck on any gift cards you received over the holidays!
What I’m Reading: The Silent Patient by Alex Michaelides
What I’m Watching: Dirty John and Vanderpump Rules on Bravo!
What I’m Listening To:
Sunflower // Post Malone, Swae Lee
Hospitalized // Broods
No Place // Backstreet Boys
Favourite Thing // Fleur East
I’ve been looking for a new, affordable skin care line since I randomly had a reaction to the Clinique set I was initially using. My aunt recommended OLEHENRIKSEN’S A Brighter Truth vitamin C products. In researching these products, I found the A Brighter Truth Brightening Essentials Kit. Since I’m one of those people who likes to try sample products before I commit, this kit gives me the opportunity to try out the top three products I was looking at. I’ve already noticed a difference in my skin after two weeks, and will include more about this product in an upcoming post.
J. Crew Factory is having an awesome sale at the moment, so I picked up this adorable gingham dress, which will be perfect for summer parties or my upcoming trip to France!
Also at the J. Crew Factory sale, I purchased the work blazer simply because my current blazer has seen better days.
At the Banana Republic sale, I found this plaid racer-neck sheath dress, which will be perfect for work, as well as the Daria sunglasses. Unfortunately, they don’t have the exact tortoise shell print ones that I have, but the black are super chic. Plus, the shape will look fabulous on any face shape!
Looking Ahead: Today’s goal is to purge my closet after telling myself that I’m going to for over a week now LOL. I’m still working on a content calendar for Q1, so – as always – feel free to comment below what topics you’d like to see on the blog this year!
What have you accomplished in your first week of 2019?
Hey hey hey! It’s been a minute since my last update, and life has been crazy lately so it’s time for a quick review of what’s been happening on my side of town. Since my quick trip to Vegas last month, I’ve been on hiatus with blogging since life happens; however, this is all starting to turn around this week. Life is slowing down a bit, the holiday season is upon us, and I could not be more thrilled! I love the holidays. Yes, I’m 100% that person that starts drinking peppermint mochas and listening to Christmas music right after Halloween NO SHAME! I digress, let’s dive into the recap, shall we?
Vegas Recap: In early October, Ryan and I took a brief trip to Las Vegas for his friend’s wedding. When I say brief, I mean VERY brief… like less than 48 hours brief. Anywho, despite it being super quick we had so much fun! Honestly, I never had a desire to go to Vegas, but we had so much fun in such a short amount of time that we cannot wait to return next year for my best friend’s bachelorette party. We stayed at the Flamingo, which is also where we spent most of our time in the casino, but I was bummed that we didn’t get to see much of the strip on foot, though I did get to visit the Venetian while I waited for Ry to arrive, which was super cool and slightly trippy. Once he arrived, we all headed to Fremont Street (aka Old Las Vegas) for the evening. Since it was a Sunday night there was not a ton going on, but we enjoyed two of the outdoor concerts taking place. Our last adventure of the trip was ziplining from the roof of the Rio Hotel 500 feet above Vegas. If you know me, you know that I HATE heights! It ended up being an extraordinary experience, but one that I’m fine only doing once. If you have any recommendations of things we should see or do on our next trip to Vegas, leave a comment below!
What I’m Reading: A Ladder to the Sky by John Boyne
What I’m Watching: Manifest
What I’m Listening To:
Baby // Clean Bandit, Marina & the Diamonds, and Luis Fonsi
Without Me // Halsey
Speechless // Dan + Shay
Burning Man // Dierks Bentley & Brothers Osborne
Lover, Leaver // Greta Van Fleet
Higher // Social House
Mona Lisa // Lil Wayne & Kendrick Lamar
Close to Me // Ellie Goulding,
I just ordered these adorable leopard print flats from James Ascher and I’m hoping to get in a few wears with them before the snow falls!
Also ordered from James Ascher is the navy and orange Window Pane Open Front Shawl Jacket. The link was removed from the website, but you can see it in my Instagram fashion highlight!
I also recently purchased these Ellie Chelsea boots from Target for only $30 to replace my favorite Ralph Lauren booties (RIP) and I’m obsessed. I try to not spend a ton of money on boots for the mere fact that Michigan winters can be pretty gnarly and the sidewalk salt can destroy boots.
Finally, I purchased a Quip toothbrush. I’ve had my eye on it for a while, and have heard nothing but good things about the brand so I’m excited to see if it makes a difference. What really drew me to it was the price; it’s super affordable compared to other electric toothbrushes.
Latest Fashion Picks:
It’s no secret that I’m a big fan of layering, and this tweed coat from J. Crew would be the perfect top layer as the cold weather rolls in. Plus, tweed is always in style.
Believe it or not, my mom actually just picked up a pair of these Faux-Suede Stevie Pants from Old Navy and I want them in every color. Not only are they comfy, but they can be dressed up or down for most occasions.
Looking Ahead: In October, I fell off the workout wagon, so I’ve gotten back on the workout grind with some at home Pilates exercises. That being said, I plan on putting together a health/fitness post about the plan I’m sticking to for the next year, that will most likely come out in early January in lieu of my 2019 goals post. I also am excited to have the next week off of work for the Thanksgiving holiday, which will give me plenty of time to crank out some fun content I have for the blog through the end of the year!
We may still have a few months left of 2018, but in honor of October being National Book Month, I thought I’d celebrate by compiling a list of the books I’ve read this year thus far.
A bit of background before we jump in…
My love for books goes waaaaay back. I remember being bound and determined to learn how to read when my mom informed me that I wasn’t going to get an American Girl doll until I could actually read the books that came with them. I still remember the first book I learned to read happened to be about a firefighter, and I would read it over and over again in an attempt to perfect it. What started as a challenge to overcome blossomed into a passion of mine, and the rest is history. Today, you can always find me carrying a book wherever I go!
This year, I made it a goal of mine to read books that I already own since I’ve made it to the last book of the Outlander series. I’m proud to say that I’ve [mostly] stuck with that goal and knocked out a number of books that have been hanging out on my shelf collecting dust for the past few years.
Also new to my reading list this year is the Book of the Month club — shout out to my co-worker for hooking a sister up! At the beginning of each month, BOTM allows you to choose from five new books in varying genres (some of which aren’t even being sold on the market yet). It’s $14.99 for one book, and you can add on others from the current month or previous months for $9.99 each. You also have the opportunity to opt out each month, and can get free book credits from referring a friend! If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, you can sign up here. This is totally not sponsored, I genuinely want to share my obsession with you!
All the Bright Places by Jennifer Niven // While I don’t usually read many YA novels at this point, I heard so many rave reviews that I had to check it out myself. The main characters meet by talking each other off the ledge of the school bell tower. Theodore Finch is a “strange kid” fascinated by death and constantly fantasizes about his own; while Violet Markey, a former member of the popular crowd, is learning to cope with her sister’s death. After being paired up for a school project on the natural wonders of their state, they develop a close bond; however, as Violet’s world takes a turn for the better, Theodore’s takes a turn for the worse. A lot of reviews compare this book to A Fault In Our Stars, but this completely stands alone. It addresses mental health in a way I’ve never read before, and found it to be beautifully captivating and extremely emotional.
The Immortalists by Chloe Benjamin // When four siblings go to a psychic as children, they discover the exact date they are going to die. This book follows how each one chooses to live their life as their death date impends. I really liked how the book was split up to focus on each sibling separately from the rest, particularly because each story differed vastly from the others. I loved the story line and the unique lives each character led.
The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah // Taking place in a small French village during World War II, this story follows Vianne Mauriac and her younger, rebellious sister Isabelle and the differing paths they take in order to survive the war. While Vianne’s husband goes off to fight, she tries to keep herself and her daughter alive while quartering the enemy in their home. Isabelle finds herself passionate about the resistance, and ends up falling in love with a fellow member of the resistance; that is, until he betrays her. I love, love, love this book! I’ve spoken about my obsession with historical fiction novels for a while now, but this book surpassed all my expectations and kept me hungry for more throughout. There were so many facets explored in this novel – relationships in wartime (romantic and familial), and right vs. wrong in traumatic situations are just two of them.
You Are A Badass by Jen Sincero // Talk about a pep talk in a book. I know that so many self-help books can come across as dry and boring, and this is everything but that! Jen gives readers life advice through hilarious stories, easy exercises for facing your fears and overcoming self doubt, and tips of how to rise above and grasp the life you want and love by the horns. This will be one of those books I pick up at least once a year.
A Fine Imitation by Amber Brock // If you are a fan of The Great Gatsby — AKA my favorite book of all time — then this is the perfect read for you. Vera Bellington is a New York City socialite with a seemingly perfect, coveted life from the outside looking in. When the handsome, mysterious French painter Emil Hallan is hired on to paint a portion of Vera’s building, she finds herself enticed by his secrecy. In attempting to uncover the secrets of his past, Vera finds herself thinking about her own secrets dating back to her college days at Vassar, and eventually coming face-to-face with them. At the end of the day, she needs to decided whether the luxurious life she is living is really the one she desires. I found this to be a very quick read – light and enjoyable. I didn’t find it to be all that much of a page-turner, but I think it’s because I felt no connection to the characters.
America’s First Daughter by Stephanie Dray and Laura Kamoie // This book is dubbed as a historical fiction (yes, another one made my list), but it is based on research and letters written by and to Patsy Jefferson Randolph throughout her life. Throughout Thomas Jefferson’s life, particularly after the loss of his wife, Jefferson often looked to his daughter as his “right hand woman” in all circumstances. A story of love, politics, and the desire for freedom, America’s FirstDaughter left me wanting to know more about all of these key players during their time. I found it fascinating to dive into the story of someone who played such a large part in our nation’s history that the history books don’t tell you about. So much research went into this book
The Heiresses by Sara Shephard // From the mind of the author that brought us Pretty Little Liars, The Heiresses is the tale of a wealthy family who owns a New York City diamond empire and are plagued by tragic events. When the seemingly perfect Poppy Saybrook flings herself from her office window, her four cousins receive an ominous message that makes them fear for their lives. This book reminded me of a dark version of Gossip Girl, so obviously I loved every second of it! The mystery and drama was plentiful, and the end left me wanting more.
An Echo in the Bone (Outlander Series) by Diana Gabaldon // I have been talking about my love for the Outlander series on my blog since I first rebranded, and I most likely will continue to talk about it for the rest of eternity – sorry not sorry! This is the seventh book in the series, and the story line was chalk full of twists and turns, which resulted in me finishing it in record time. I don’t want to give away the story line since it does have spoilers if you are reading the preceding books or watching the series. I’m actually putting off starting the 8th and final book (so far) because I’m not ready for it to end!
Beautiful Ruins by Jess Walter // When a sick American actress lands on the shore of a small Italian village to wait for her lover to arrive and take her home, the son of the late village hotelier, Pasquale, falls head over heels for her, despite her current love affair. A story of lost love, the book hops back and forth between 1962 and modern-day Hollywood, presenting characters and connecting characters in a non-traditional fashion. Honestly, I was pretty disappointed by this, even though I pretty much bought it because I thought the cover was pretty and saw it was #1 on the New York Times Best Sellers list. I had a really hard time getting into the story, and did not find it as funny as all of the reviews said it was.
Love & Luck by Jenna Evans Welch // While Addie is on an incredible trip to Ireland for her aunt’s over-the-top destination wedding, she just can’t stop dwelling on the horrible thing she did a few months prior, nor will her older brother Ian allow her to forget. While hiding away from her family, Addie discovers the guidebook Ireland for the Heartbroken which helps her cope with her issues while she anxiously awaits to travel to Italy to visit her friend and escape her family. Soon enough, her travel plans change, and she’s trapped on a road trip across Ireland with Ian and his Irish friend Rowan. With the help of the peculiar guidebook, Addie begins to address old wounds both within herself and with Ian. I was really excited to read this because I adored Love & Gelato, but I didn’t find this to be as riveting as L&G. I still enjoyed the story, but there were a few parts of the book where I had the feeling that I missed a few parts, which was not the case. All-in-all it was a lighthearted, quick read.
1984 by George Orwell // A Dystopian novel that displays the degradation of society under a totalitarian government. In a world where individuality is a crime and big brother is always watching, Winston Smith decides to rebel, but he soon learns that all actions have consequences and you can’t hide from big brother. Oddly enough, I found this book to be quite enjoyable; though, it is strange to me that many high schools have this as required reading. I do wish I read it while I was in high school to compare it to my thoughts reading it as an adult, as I don’t think I would have appreciated it as much then as I do now.
The Dinner List by Rebecca Serle // When I saw this book on the Book of the Month website, I knew it would be right up my alley, and it definitely didn’t disappoint! The story begs the question, “if you could invite five people to dinner dead or alive, who would you choose and why?” The book starts with Sabrina showing up to her 30th birthday dinner to find the five people she listed that she wanted to have dinner with when she was in college. As the dinner flows, the reader is given glimpses into Sabrina’s past, and it suddenly becomes clear that all of those in attendance are there for a particular reason. I was left quite pensive after reading this book, and have been inspired to write a full blog post on it — stay tuned for this post, which will be going live in the next couple weeks.
Circe by Madeline Miller // I’ve always had a bit of a soft spot for Greek mythology, so I was curious to get a peek inside the life of Circe. The seemingly powerless daughter of Helios, Circe is enamored by mortals, and through her fascination she ends up transforming a lover into a god and an enemy into a monster; it is then that she discovers her power of witchcraft. Zeus grows threatened and banishes her to the island of Aeaea where she further develops her powers while combating mortal men who sail to her island, love, and other gods and goddesses. I loved the strong female protagonist that Circe was, and how she was able to prove everyone that doubted her throughout her younger years wrong.
Goodbye, Paris by Anstey Harris // I need to start by saying that I 100% believed that this was going to be a stereotypical romance novel, but I was mistaken. Grace is a quirky luthier, running her shop in a small English village while maintaining a long-term love affair with David. David wants to remain together while his children grow up so that he can leave his family without traumatizing them (red flag, right?). While on one of their romantic getaways to Paris, David saves a woman’s life, and everything spins out of control when it’s plastered across all news mediums. Grace is forced to learn the ugly truth about David as she’s working to win the world’s most prominent string instrument making competition, which completely shatters her. With the help of two unlikely friends, Grace is faced with the decision to allow her heartbreak to make or break her. I was very surprised at how much I liked this book. There were some slower aspects, but all-in-all I thought it was a great light read!
The Last Time I Lied by Riley Sager // The perfect psychological thriller to get you in the Halloween mood, The Last Time I Lied is a chilling story about Emma Davis — a young woman faced with the unthinkable at the ripe age of 13 while away at summer camp. A harmless game of two truths and a lie with the three older girls in her cabin turns dangerous when the three older girls go missing. Flash forward to modern-day, Emma is an artist who can’t paint anything but those missing girls. She’s approached to face her fears and return to Camp Nightingale as a counselor as it reopens 15 years after the disappearance. She is put in the same cabin as before, and starts to dig around to figure out what exactly happened to those girls all those years ago. Things start to become even more suspicious when she discovers she is being watched and threatened all these years later, which soon becomes deadly. I was so enthralled in this book! It constantly kept me guessing and was totally unpredictable. This is not your average scary campfire story; it’s so much better! This is by far one of the top books I’ve read this year.
The Lies We Told by Camilla Way // I just finished this last week, and could not put it down! Purchased as my October Book of the Month, The Lies We Told is yet another psychological thriller I chose to read in honor of Halloween. Clara’s world turns upside down when her boyfriend Luke goes missing. Things become even more strange when Luke’s older sister Emily suddenly reappears 20 years after her own disappearance in an attempt to help find Luke. As Clara searches for Luke, she uncovers secrets he and his seemingly perfect family have kept under wraps, and begins questioning those closest to her. Are Emily and Luke’s disappearances linked? Will she ever be able to trust Luke and his family after all of their lies? Discover the truth by delving in to The Lies We Told. I thoroughly enjoyed this book, it starts off with a bang, and takes off from there, leaving the reader feeling as though every character is a suspect in the case. Near the end, I began to decipher who the culprit was, yet I still thought the author revealed all of the truths flawlessly at the conclusion.
To see what I’m currently reading, and what I plan on reading next, follow me on Goodreads, and check out my Instagram story highlights! Now I want to know: What’s your favorite book that you’ve read this year?
I have this problem — the first step is admitting that, right? It’s this thing where I continuously buy books even though I know there is no way I’ll get through them all in the span of a year, yet I continue to build my personal library. In all honesty, there are far worse addictions that I could have than buying books (I know, I know, this is just me justifying it to myself).
My love for books and reading began at a young age. I would “read” books to my then-infant brother Owen as a toddler, and force my parents and grandparents to read to me since I couldn’t read myself. I still remember the very first book I learned to read in kindergarten about a firefighter and his Dalmatian — ironic now that I’m dating a firefighter, amiright?! I even have a list of places I want to visit just to see the resident library; the Biltmore Estate being one I checked off my list this past year (you can see this post here). Additionally, you can bet that I’m always carrying a book on me for when I have down time or during my lunch period at work.
This year, I’ve made it a priority to get through those books that I own that I have yet to touch THEN and only then will I allow myself to purchase more … Oh who am I kidding?!? We all know that I’ll be buying more as soon as I discover a new book I want to get my hands on! As you’ll see below, I have a huge soft spot for historical fiction (i.e. Outlander die-hard over here!), but I’m open to various genres. Here are the primary books I have on my list to read this year: