December Playlist

Him & I// G-Eazy & Halsey

Lemon// N.E.R.D. & Rihanna

Let Me Go// Hailee Steinfeld, Alesso, Florida Georgia Line

So Far Away// Martin Garriz, David Guetta, Jamie Scott, Romy Dya

Perfect Duet// Ed Sheeran, Beyonce

Miss You// Louis Tomlinson

No More // PRETTYMUCH, French Montana

Midnight Train to Memphis // Chris Stapleton

Out of Nowhere Girl // Luke Bryan

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Gratitude

With the advent of Thanksgiving upon us, it’s necessary to take the time away from our busy schedules and reflect on all of the blessings we’ve received throughout the year.

All too often, we get caught up in the craziness of our day to day lives, and don’t take the time to appreciate and thank God for everything both big and small in our lives. I challenge you to take your blessings and use them to give to others during this season of giving. Whether it’s simply paying forward a previous favor someone did for you, or paying for the person behind you in line at Starbucks.

“Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true measure of our Thanksgiving.” – Betsy Farrell

I am truly grateful, thankful, and blessed for an incredible year thus far. I have so many things to be thankful for, including the opportunity to travel to another country for the first time, my family is going to be together for the holidays, and my Airman is FINALLY coming back to the states in just a few more days!

What are you most grateful for this year?

Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!

-K.

Surviving My First Post-Grad Job: A Year in Reflection

“There is no substitute for hard work” – Thomas Edison

I’ve been at my first post-grad job for about a year and a half now, and thus far it has been a whirlwind of learning experiences. If you’ve stuck with me this long, you’ll know that I did a brief reflection after my first week on the job. Needless to say, after only a week on the job, I had no idea what lay ahead for me in my position.

A Brief HistoryInitially, I was hired on to take over our Social Media Strategist’s position while she was on maternity leave. She’d been at the company for about five years at the time, and is  beyond fantastic at her job. Daunting was an understatement. As turbulent as it seemed at the time, I found that I really enjoyed the position, namely because I was gaining more global experience than I ever thought I would. Upon her return in January, I was handed over some of the same responsibilities I was doing in her position, such as branding/merchandising, writing press releases, and managing local trade shows and conferences. These items, as well as a few others, are what I’m currently responsible for in my position.

Here are a few lessons I’ve taken away from my first year in corporate America:

  • You will make mistakes. Accept them. Learn from them. Early on, I was terrified of making any mistakes, but it turned out that I was preventing myself from learning. After a series of events and some self reflection, I finally acknowledged that it is all part of being human, and the learning process.
  • Be hungry to learn. Take on every learning opportunity you are given even if it scares you; something truly great could come out of the experience. If an opportunity is not directly presented to you, it does not hurt to ask! In fact, it will make you an exemplary employee.
  • Ask questions unapologetically. I’m not going to lie, it took me a while to figure out that my co-workers are not going to get mad at me or annoyed with me if I have a question. It’s always better to ask a question, rather than assuming and doing something wrong. You are not expected to know everything when you first start out. Be sure not to ask the SAME question over and over again – this is where you’ll piss people off.
  • Find yourself a mentor. Being one of the youngest people in the company is a challenge in itself. Luckily, I’ve been blessed with an awesome team that genuinely wants me to succeed.
  • Don’t take things too personally. This is something that I’m still struggling with, and – quite frankly – I think it takes a while to learn.
  • Leave work at work. I CANNOT emphasize this enough! You will have a much healthier work-life balance if you leave anxieties and stress pertaining to work at the door on your way out. You work to live, you don’t live to work.
  • Take care of yourself outside of work. If you’re not at your best outside of work, there’s absolutely no way you can bring your best foot forward at work. Take at least an hour out of your day to relax and “treat yo’self”.

Not too shabby for YEAR 1! It was no easy feat, yet I’ve learned a lot about myself and grown immensely throughout the process. Obviously there is still much more to learn throughout my career, and I’m beyond excited to see what the future holds!

-K.

November Playlist

Wolves//Selena Gomez, Marshmello

Told You So//Miguel

Faking It// Calvin Harris, Kehlani, Lil Yachty

L.A.//Rosie Darling, OKO

Rake It Up//Yo Gotti, Nicki Minaj

No Limit//G-Eazy, A$AP Rocky, Cardi B

Wait//Maroon 5

Tough Love//Chris Brown

Riding Shotgun//Kygo, Oliver Nelson, Bonnie McKee

End of the World//Kelsea Ballerini

5 Improvements I’m Making on my Daily Routine

My first post of this year consisted of nine goals I had for myself for this year. The number one goal on that list is to take better care of myself, which is something I’ve been focusing on a lot lately. Self care is so important; without it you won’t be performing at your best in work or school, or in life period. I always feel at the top of my game after a day of self care. It doesn’t even have to be a day; take at least an hour for yourself a day to help you feel refreshed and rejuvenated.

In the process of taking better care of myself, I’ve added a few new steps to my daily routine to see what fits in with my lifestyle. Here are five that I’ve found aid me immensely throughout the day, week, and so on:

One//Taking better care of my skin.

In my previous blog post, I discussed how I’ve finally found a skin care routine that works for me. Every night I set aside a half hour to floss, brush, and do my brand new routine. I’ve discovered that if I use certain products or cake on makeup multiple days in a row, my skin likes to retaliate and break out. It’s totally okay to give your skin a break and only throw on some mascara and lip gloss for a day at the office.

Two//Taking the time to eat breakfast

There’s no denying how much I love to sleep and how I will soak up every last ounce of it I can get. That being said, I wouldn’t always eat breakfast before leaving for work. When I realized just how much skipping breakfast was affecting me. This Reader’s Digest article explains the negative effects of not eating breakfast on a daily basis.

Three//Ensuring I take small “brain breaks” throughout the day

The older I get, the more I find it difficult to sit or stay focused for long periods of time.  I always ensure that I allow myself to get up and take a brisk walk around the office to keep semi-active throughout the day, and give myself a break from staring at my computer. Also, during lunch I’ll bring a book or work on my blog to take my mind off of work for a bit.

Four//Reading before bed instead of checking my socials

I’ve always been a big reader, but during my college years, I found little to no time to read between coursework, sorority events, dance team and work. I decided to try to dedicate at least 30 minutes to read for enjoyment before bed – it didn’t always happen. However, in the last few years, I have discovered that I get a much better night’s sleep if I read rather than checking social media.

Five//Going to bed at a decent time

Every night (save for some weekends), I’m in bed by 9pm. I know this makes me sound like a grandma, but I am super cranky if I don’t get enough sleep. Every morning I wake up at 4:30am preceding my hour commute to work so going to bed at a decent time in order to get the recommended 7-8 hours is crucial for me.

What are some things you do to improve your daily routine? Leave a comment below, I’d love to hear from you!

-K.

Closet Staples for Every Professional Woman

Transitioning into corporate America from college life is no easy feat, especially in the wardrobe department. Luckily for me, I had my sorority Sundays and numerous internships to help me build my professional wardrobe and keep me on the right track to know what is and is not professional. However, my current workplace has everything from casual jeans to full business attire depending on what team you’re on, so it took me a bit to get in the groove of what is and is not acceptable.

I’ve found that having a business capsule wardrobe helps make my outfit planning for work a lot easier. Here are a few primary closet staples every boss babe needs in her wardrobe!

Classic White Oxford// Ralph Lauren never fails in the Oxford department. An Oxford can be paired with most everything, and is perfect for layering in the cooler months.

Feminine Blouse// While an Oxford is extremely versatile, a feminine blouse can make an outfit. Add a little extra embroidery like this Zara high-collar blouse, and you’ll instantly make a statement.

Blazer// I love love love a good blazer! I believe that a well-tailored blazer can instantly dress up any outfit. My personal favorite is the J. Crew Factory Schoolboy Blazer in Navy, as seen on Instagram.

Pencil Skirt// Pretty sure it goes without saying, but every boss babe has AT LEAST one power pencil skirt in their closet. J. Crew Factory has a ton of pencil skirts in varying colors and great for all seasons. Some of my favorite pencil skirts also come from New York and Company; they have everything from a classic black pencil skirt to a fun, flirty patterned skirt.

Sensible Pumps// I used to be that horrible person that buys shoes because they’re cute without really thinking about their comfort level. Don’t be that person! I promise your work conferences are so much more enjoyable when your feet aren’t killing you. Some of the most comfortable (and fashionable) pumps were nearly identical to these black leather pumps from Nine West.

Loafers/Chic Flats// Lately I’ve been obsessed with loafers and pointed-toe flats such as these Sam Endelman Loafers and these pointed-toe ballet flats from Target. Bonus points if you have them in fun colors!

Here are a couple ways to style these classic pieces:

Professional Staples 1
Professional Staples 2

Professional Staples 2 by kerogus featuring a j crew jacket

What are some of your favorite staples for the office?
-K.

 

25 Bucket List Destinations

Ever since I was little, I dreamt of seeing the world. I always knew that there was so much more than my little hometown, but it always seemed to be one of those places that was like a black hole – once people were here, they never left. Luckily, my parents have blessed my brothers and I with some amazing family vacations since a young age. Although, we were travelling in the US – with the occassional trip across the border to Canada –  I was so fascinated to see how different parts of the country lived. It’s amazing to see the beauty in every single state.

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Photo provided by Jessah of ReadyJessSet

 

If you’ve been following my blog, you know that this past April, I traveled out of the country for the first time. Let me tell you, I have been bitten by the wanderlust bug! I’m already planning some trips for the next year, and I cannot wait to share them with you, but, for now, here are 25 destinations I need to see in my lifetime (in no particular order)!

  1. Dublin, Ireland
  2. Edinburgh, Scotland
  3. London, England
  4. Paris, France
  5. Boston, Massachusetts
  6. Savannah, Georgia
  7. Charleston, South Carolina
  8. Santorini, Greece
  9. Casablanca, Morocco
  10. Bali, Indonesia
  11. St. Lucia
  12. Salem, Massachusetts
  13. Nashville, Tennessee
  14. Maui, Hawaii
  15. Nantucket, Massachusetts (okay so maybe I just want to see all of MA!)
  16. Newport, Rhode Island
  17. Positano, Italy
  18. Prague, Czech Republic
  19. Vienna, Austria
  20. Athens, Greece
  21. Madrid, Spain
  22. Berlin, Germany
  23. Zurich, Switzlerland
  24. Porto, Portugal
  25. Budapest, Hungary

Launching soon: ReadyJesSet a travel and lifestyle blog to fuel your wanderlust! Learn more about Jessah and her travels on Facebook and Instagram.

What is your must-see destination?

-K.